{"id":66,"date":"2013-04-15T20:17:19","date_gmt":"2013-04-15T20:17:19","modified":"2015-03-19T16:14:20","modified_gmt":"2015-03-19T19:14:20","slug":"guerra-em-familia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.adventistas.org\/pt\/familia\/guerra-em-familia\/","title":{"rendered":"Guerra em fam\u00edlia"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"casal\"O ca\u00adsal da ci\u00adda\u00adde de Gre\u00adno\u00adble, na Fran\u00ad\u00e7a, mal acre\u00addi\u00adta no re\u00adca\u00addo que aca\u00adba de re\u00adce\u00adber. Seu fi\u00adlho Eric, de 21 anos, est\u00e1 mo\u00adven\u00addo um pro\u00adces\u00adso con\u00adtra eles. \u201cMeu ma\u00adri\u00addo che\u00adgou a rir. Acha\u00adva que nenhum juiz iria le\u00advar aqui\u00adlo a s\u00e9\u00adrio\u201d, con\u00adta a es\u00adpo\u00adsa. Es\u00adtu\u00addan\u00adte de ci\u00ean\u00adcias so\u00adciais, o ra\u00adpaz saiu de casa em meio a uma dis\u00adcus\u00ads\u00e3o em que acu\u00adsou a fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlia, en\u00adtre ou\u00adtras coi\u00adsas, de \u201cfal\u00adta de ma\u00adtu\u00adri\u00adda\u00adde po\u00adl\u00ed\u00adti\u00adca\u201d. De\u00adpois de fi\u00adcar tr\u00eas me\u00adses na casa da m\u00e3e da na\u00admo\u00adra\u00adda, acio\u00adnou a fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlia ju\u00addi\u00adcial\u00admen\u00adte, ale\u00adgan\u00addo aban\u00addo\u00adno de sus\u00adten\u00adto. Ga\u00adnhou o di\u00adrei\u00adto de re\u00adce\u00adber dos pais o equi\u00adva\u00adlen\u00adte a mil reais por m\u00eas. Eric, que hoje vive com a na\u00admo\u00adra\u00adda, s\u00f3 fala com a fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlia por meio de ad\u00advo\u00adga\u00addos.<\/p>\n

O po\u00adli\u00adcial Lio\u00adnel Del\u00adbeck tam\u00adb\u00e9m pas\u00adsou por ex\u00adpe\u00adri\u00ean\u00adcia igual\u00admen\u00adte amar\u00adga. Pro\u00adces\u00adsa\u00addo pela filha de 19 anos, diz que n\u00e3o se es\u00adque\u00adce do dia em que es\u00adte\u00adve fren\u00adte a fren\u00adte com ela no tri\u00adbu\u00adnal. \u201cN\u00e3o con\u00adse\u00adguia pa\u00adrar de cho\u00adrar\u201d, con\u00adta. Con\u00adde\u00adna\u00addo em pri\u00admei\u00adra ins\u00adt\u00e2n\u00adcia, con\u00adse\u00adguiu re\u00adver\u00adter a senten\u00ad\u00e7a de\u00adpois de pro\u00advar que a mo\u00e7a ha\u00advia aban\u00addo\u00adna\u00addo os es\u00adtu\u00addos e que o mo\u00adti\u00advo da a\u00e7\u00e3o era o plano de vi\u00adver com o na\u00admo\u00adra\u00addo. \u201cAt\u00e9 hoje n\u00e3o con\u00adsi\u00adgo fa\u00adlar com ela\u201d, diz o po\u00adli\u00adcial.<\/p>\n

Le\u00advar os pais para o tri\u00adbu\u00adnal est\u00e1 vi\u00adran\u00addo moda na Fran\u00ad\u00e7a. Em um s\u00f3 ano, qua\u00adse dois mil jo\u00advens pro\u00adces\u00adsa\u00adram os pr\u00f3\u00adprios pais com o ob\u00adje\u00adti\u00advo de ob\u00adter uma es\u00adp\u00e9\u00adcie de me\u00adsa\u00adda com\u00adpul\u00ads\u00f3\u00adria, o que por l\u00e1 \u00e9 le\u00adgi\u00adti\u00adma\u00addo pela lei. O Ar\u00adti\u00adgo 203 do C\u00f3\u00addi\u00adgo Ci\u00advil es\u00adta\u00adbe\u00adle\u00adce que as fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlias t\u00eam o de\u00adver de susten\u00adtar os fi\u00adlhos at\u00e9 que eles en\u00adcon\u00adtrem um em\u00adpre\u00adgo es\u00adt\u00e1\u00advel. \u201c\u00c9 a Jus\u00adti\u00ad\u00e7a pa\u00adtro\u00adci\u00adnan\u00addo a desintegra\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o da fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlia\u201d, re\u00adcla\u00adma Hil\u00adlary Roc\u00adca, ca\u00adsa\u00adda com o en\u00adge\u00adnhei\u00adro Pa\u00adtrick Roc\u00adca, am\u00adbos devi\u00adda\u00admen\u00adte en\u00adqua\u00addra\u00addos.<\/p>\n

Com am\u00adpa\u00adro le\u00adgal ou n\u00e3o, o que se per\u00adce\u00adbe em todo o mun\u00addo \u00e9 a cres\u00adcen\u00adte fal\u00adta de res\u00adpei\u00adto por par\u00adte dos fi\u00adlhos e a con\u00adse\u00adq\u00fcen\u00adte fra\u00adgi\u00adli\u00adza\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o das re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es fa\u00admi\u00adlia\u00adres.<\/p>\n

Exis\u00adte um ver\u00adda\u00addei\u00adro abis\u00admo en\u00adtre as re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es fa\u00admi\u00adlia\u00adres dos tem\u00adpos mo\u00adder\u00adnos e as da \u00e9po\u00adca b\u00edbli\u00adca. Na\u00adque\u00adles tem\u00adpos, a con\u00adsi\u00adde\u00adra\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o pela opi\u00adni\u00e3o e ex\u00adpe\u00adri\u00ean\u00adcia pa\u00adter\u00adnas era t\u00e3o gran\u00adde que freq\u00fcen\u00adte\u00admen\u00adte os fi\u00adlhos per\u00admi\u00adtiam aos pais es\u00adco\u00adlhe\u00adrem seu c\u00f4n\u00adju\u00adge. \u00c9 o que ocor\u00adreu com Isa\u00adque. Seu pai, Abra\u00e3o, j\u00e1 bas\u00adtan\u00adte ido\u00adso, preo\u00adcu\u00adpa\u00addo com o fu\u00adtu\u00adro do fi\u00adlho, en\u00adviou seu \u201cmais an\u00adti\u00adgo ser\u00advo\u201d, que go\u00adver\u00adna\u00adva tudo o que o pa\u00adtriar\u00adca pos\u00adsu\u00eda, a bus\u00adcar uma es\u00adpo\u00adsa para Isa\u00adque. E a his\u00adt\u00f3\u00adria teve um fi\u00adnal fe\u00adliz, sen\u00addo Re\u00adbe\u00adca um b\u00ean\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ao \u201cfi\u00adlho da pro\u00admes\u00adsa\u201d.<\/p>\n

O res\u00adpei\u00adto aos pais \u00e9 algo t\u00e3o im\u00adpor\u00adtan\u00adte que exis\u00adte um man\u00adda\u00admen\u00adto, en\u00adtre os dez, que ordena:\u201cHon\u00adra teu pai e tua m\u00e3e\u201d(\u00caxo. 20:12). Um dos pro\u00adp\u00f3\u00adsi\u00adtos des\u00adse man\u00adda\u00admen\u00adto \u00e9 criar o respei\u00adto por toda au\u00adto\u00adri\u00adda\u00adde le\u00adg\u00ed\u00adti\u00adma. \u00c9 cla\u00adro que, para se\u00adrem res\u00adpei\u00adta\u00addos, os pais de\u00advem res\u00adpei\u00adtar e amar seus fi\u00adlhos. Em Ef\u00e9\u00adsios 6:1-4, o ap\u00f3s\u00adto\u00adlo Pau\u00adlo fala so\u00adbre os dois la\u00addos da ques\u00adt\u00e3o: os fi\u00adlhos devem hon\u00adrar os pais e os pais n\u00e3o de\u00advem ir\u00adri\u00adtar os fi\u00adlhos. Se\u00adria bom as fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlias mo\u00adder\u00adnas da\u00adrem mais aten\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s re\u00adco\u00admen\u00adda\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es b\u00ed\u00adbli\u00adcas no que diz res\u00adpei\u00adto \u00e0s re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es fa\u00admi\u00adlia\u00adres.<\/p>\n

Tris\u00adte como pos\u00adsa ser a con\u00addi\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o atual de mui\u00adtas fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlias, essa si\u00adtua\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o se cons\u00adti\u00adtui num dos claros si\u00adnais da bre\u00adve vol\u00adta de Je\u00adsus. O ap\u00f3s\u00adto\u00adlo Pau\u00adlo afir\u00admou que, nos \u00fal\u00adti\u00admos dias, as pes\u00adsoas seriam \u201cde\u00adso\u00adbe\u00addien\u00adtes aos pais\u201d (2a Tim. 3:2). Como Je\u00adsus vir\u00e1 para res\u00adta\u00adbe\u00adle\u00adcer as con\u00addi\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es de vida que ha\u00advia an\u00adtes do pe\u00adca\u00addo, um de Seus ob\u00adje\u00adti\u00advos ser\u00e1 aca\u00adbar com a \u201cguer\u00adra em fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlia\u201d e es\u00adta\u00adbe\u00adle\u00adcer a gran\u00adde fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlia dos sal\u00advos. Eter\u00adna\u00admen\u00adte em paz. Eter\u00adna\u00admen\u00adte fe\u00adliz.<\/p>\n

Michelson Borges, Revista Sinais dos Tempos, 2002, Casa Publicadora Brasileira<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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