{"id":64,"date":"2013-04-15T20:15:14","date_gmt":"2013-04-15T20:15:14","modified":"2015-03-19T16:14:30","modified_gmt":"2015-03-19T19:14:30","slug":"kit-da-felicidade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.adventistas.org\/pt\/familia\/kit-da-felicidade\/","title":{"rendered":"Kit da felicidade"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Casal

O co\u00adra\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ale\u00adgre \u00e9 bom re\u00adm\u00e9\u00addio, tamb\u00e9m para o casamento<\/p><\/div>\n

O chi\u00adn\u00eas Sang Lee, au\u00adtor do li\u00advro Li\u00adber\u00adte-se, dis\u00adse nu\u00adma de suas con\u00adfe\u00adr\u00ean\u00adcias que o casamen\u00adto po\u00adde ser uma ver\u00adda\u00adde ou um fa\u00adto. E pros\u00adse\u00adguiu: \u201cQual\u00adquer ca\u00adsal que an\u00adda jun\u00adto na rua n\u00e3o pas\u00adsa de um fa\u00adto\u201d.<\/p>\n

Mas quan\u00addo a com\u00adpa\u00adnhia en\u00adtre duas pes\u00adsoas com\u00adpro\u00adme\u00adti\u00addas pas\u00adsa a ser ver\u00adda\u00adde? \u201cSo\u00admen\u00adte quan\u00addo ex\u00adpres\u00adsam amor e sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria no re\u00adla\u00adcio\u00adna\u00admen\u00adto\u201d, ga\u00adran\u00adtiu ele.<\/p>\n

Pa\u00adra Lee, ver\u00adda\u00adde \u00e9 \u201cuma coi\u00adsa ca\u00adlo\u00adro\u00adsa, agra\u00add\u00e1\u00advel e bo\u00adni\u00adta\u201d. Ao ou\u00advi-lo, lem\u00adbrei-me de mui\u00adtos ca\u00adsos de es\u00adtran\u00adgei\u00adros se ca\u00adsan\u00addo com ame\u00adri\u00adca\u00adnas pa\u00adra con\u00adse\u00adguir uma car\u00adta de re\u00adsi\u00add\u00ean\u00adcia nos Es\u00adta\u00addos Uni\u00addos. Es\u00adses ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adtos s\u00e3o um fa\u00adto, s\u00e3o le\u00adgais, mas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o ver\u00adda\u00adde.<\/p>\n

Cer\u00adta vez uma mo\u00ad\u00e7a che\u00adgou cho\u00adro\u00adsa ao tra\u00adba\u00adlho e con\u00adtou pa\u00adra os co\u00adle\u00adgas da se\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ha\u00adver si\u00addo abandona\u00adda pe\u00adlo ma\u00adri\u00addo na\u00adque\u00adla ma\u00adnh\u00e3. Es\u00adpan\u00adta\u00adda, de\u00adsa\u00adba\u00adfou: \u201cComo? Ele nun\u00adca re\u00adcla\u00admou de na\u00adda! Nun\u00adca dis\u00adcu\u00adti\u00admos!\u201d Ago\u00adra sei a cau\u00adsa da\u00adque\u00adla se\u00adpa\u00adra\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o: o ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto de\u00adles era ape\u00adnas um fa\u00adto.<\/p>\n

O pla\u00adno de Deus em re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ao ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto \u00e9 que ca\u00adda uni\u00e3o en\u00adtre ho\u00admem e mu\u00adlher se\u00adja tamb\u00e9m uma ver\u00adda\u00adde. \u201cO pri\u00admei\u00adro in\u00adgre\u00addien\u00adte da ver\u00adda\u00adde\u201d \u2013 en\u00adfa\u00adti\u00adzou o chin\u00eas \u2013 \u201c\u00e9 o amor; mas o amor n\u00e3o so\u00adbre\u00advi\u00adve sem a sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria\u201d, acres\u00adcen\u00adtou. En\u00adquan\u00adto o amor \u00e9 um dom, al\u00adgo que bro\u00adta sem es\u00adfor\u00ad\u00e7o, a sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria \u00e9 adqui\u00adri\u00adda por meio da con\u00adquis\u00adta. Re\u00adsul\u00adta de nos\u00adsa ini\u00adcia\u00adti\u00adva, \u00e9 fru\u00adto da pes\u00adqui\u00adsa.<\/p>\n

A B\u00ed\u00adblia \u00e9 uma fon\u00adte de sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria ao nos\u00adso dis\u00adpor. Se vo\u00adc\u00ea \u00e9 ca\u00adsa\u00addo, e quer sal\u00advar o casamen\u00adto, pres\u00adte aten\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o a es\u00adtes tr\u00eas con\u00adse\u00adlhos:<\/p>\n

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  1. \u201cMe\u00adlhor \u00e9 o pou\u00adco, ha\u00adven\u00addo o te\u00admor do Se\u00adnhor, do que um gran\u00adde te\u00adsou\u00adro, on\u00adde h\u00e1 inquie\u00adta\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o\u201d (Pro\u00adv\u00e9r\u00adbios 15:16). A in\u00adten\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o do s\u00e1\u00adbio Sa\u00adlo\u00adm\u00e3o n\u00e3o \u00e9 desmo\u00adti\u00advar os ca\u00adsais na bus\u00adca do pro\u00adgres\u00adso material. Pe\u00adlo con\u00adtr\u00e1\u00adrio, ele es\u00adt\u00e1 ape\u00adnas ex\u00adpon\u00addo uma das con\u00addi\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es b\u00e1\u00adsi\u00adcas pa\u00adra al\u00adgu\u00e9m al\u00adcan\u00ad\u00e7ar prosperi\u00adda\u00adde com fe\u00adli\u00adci\u00adda\u00adde: viver em har\u00admo\u00adnia com Deus. Quan\u00addo esque\u00adce\u00admos de Deus, cor\u00adre\u00admos o risco de le\u00advar uma vi\u00adda va\u00adzia, sem um pon\u00adto de par\u00adti\u00adda e sujeita \u00e0 ansie\u00adda\u00adde. \u201cO te\u00admor do Se\u00adnhor \u00e9 o princ\u00ed\u00adpio da sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria\u201d (Sal\u00admo 111:10), \u00e9 a \u00ean\u00adfa\u00adse da B\u00ed\u00adblia. O ca\u00adsal que dei\u00adxa de la\u00addo as ba\u00adses da f\u00e9, perde de vis\u00adta os prop\u00f3si\u00adtos sa\u00adgra\u00addos do matrim\u00f4nio. O ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto que des\u00adcar\u00adta a re\u00adli\u00adgi\u00e3o, em ge\u00adral minimi\u00adza ou\u00adtros prin\u00adc\u00ed\u00adpios fundamen\u00adtais pa\u00adra o bem-es\u00adtar do relacionamen\u00adto, co\u00admo o res\u00adpei\u00adto e a lealdade. E com o tem\u00adpo, o que pa\u00adre\u00adcia ver\u00adda\u00adde, de\u00admons\u00adtra que nun\u00adca pas\u00adsou de um fa\u00adto.<\/li>\n
  2. Pa\u00adra que o ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto se\u00adja sem\u00adpre ver\u00adda\u00adde, con\u00adv\u00e9m ao ca\u00adsal fi\u00adcar aten\u00adto pa\u00adra o se\u00adgun\u00addo con\u00adse\u00adlho: \u201cMe\u00adlhor \u00e9 a re\u00adpreen\u00ads\u00e3o fran\u00adca do que o amor en\u00adco\u00adber\u00adto\u201d (Pro\u00adv\u00e9r\u00adbios 27:5). O casamen\u00adto de\u00adve dis\u00adpor de tem\u00adpo pa\u00adra o de\u00adsa\u00adba\u00adfo dos res\u00adsen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adtos. De\u00adve-se la\u00advar rou\u00adpa su\u00adja em ca\u00adsa.\u00a0Nas pa\u00adla\u00advras de Sa\u00adlo\u00adm\u00e3o po\u00adde se achar que exis\u00adte um apa\u00adren\u00adte con\u00adfli\u00adto en\u00adtre o amor e a sabe\u00addo\u00adria; pois o amor es\u00adcon\u00adde pa\u00adra n\u00e3o ma\u00adgoar, e a sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria ex\u00adp\u00f5e pa\u00adra es\u00adcla\u00adre\u00adcer e aproximar.\u00a0Nes\u00adsas ho\u00adras tem-se que di\u00adzer pa\u00adra o amor: es\u00adpe\u00adre um pou\u00adqui\u00adnho, che\u00adgou a vez da sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria. Co\u00admo a sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria \u00e9 pru\u00adden\u00adte, ela se ma\u00adni\u00adfes\u00adta sem\u00adpre de m\u00e3os da\u00addas com o amor. A sa\u00adbe\u00addo\u00adria tra\u00adta com objetivida\u00adde o as\u00adsun\u00adto em dis\u00adcus\u00ads\u00e3o, sem per\u00adder de vis\u00adta a sub\u00adje\u00adti\u00advi\u00adda\u00adde dos sentimentos de quem es\u00adt\u00e1 ouvin\u00addo.\u00a0Se uma das par\u00adtes n\u00e3o quer mais fa\u00adlar nem ou\u00advir o que o ou\u00adtro sen\u00adte em re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o a ela, \u00e9 porque o ca\u00adsal es\u00adt\u00e1 so\u00adfren\u00addo uma re\u00adca\u00ed\u00adda da ver\u00adda\u00adde pa\u00adra fa\u00adto.<\/li>\n
  3. O \u00fal\u00adti\u00admo con\u00adse\u00adlho diz res\u00adpei\u00adto ao es\u00adta\u00addo de es\u00adp\u00ed\u00adri\u00adto: \u201cO co\u00adra\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ale\u00adgre \u00e9 bom re\u00adm\u00e9\u00addio, mas o esp\u00edri\u00adto aba\u00adti\u00addo faz se\u00adcar os os\u00adsos\u201d (Pro\u00adv\u00e9r\u00adbios 17:22). Se vo\u00adc\u00eas se sen\u00adtem bem, pro\u00adcu\u00adrem ex\u00adpres\u00adsar is\u00adso, atra\u00adv\u00e9s do ros\u00adto e de ges\u00adtos. Um ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto sem ex\u00adpres\u00ads\u00f5es m\u00fa\u00adtuas de ter\u00adnu\u00adra e ca\u00adri\u00adnho n\u00e3o \u00e9 ver\u00adda\u00adde.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Paulo Pinheiro, Revista Sinais dos Tempos, 1999, Casa Publicadora Brasileira<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    O chi\u00adn\u00eas Sang Lee, au\u00adtor do li\u00advro Li\u00adber\u00adte-se, dis\u00adse nu\u00adma de suas con\u00adfe\u00adr\u00ean\u00adcias que o casamen\u00adto po\u00adde ser uma ver\u00adda\u00adde ou um fa\u00adto. E pros\u00adse\u00adguiu...<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":95,"comment_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[239],"tags":[277,291,232,294,293,295,271],"class_list":["post-64","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-artigos","tag-amor","tag-deus","tag-familia-2","tag-felicidade","tag-feliz","tag-jesus","tag-lar"],"acf":[],"featured_media_url":{"full":"https:\/\/files.adventistas.org\/institucional\/pt\/sites\/3\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47266384_Subscription_Monthly_XXL.jpg","medium":"https:\/\/files.adventistas.org\/institucional\/pt\/sites\/3\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47266384_Subscription_Monthly_XXL.jpg","small":"https:\/\/files.adventistas.org\/institucional\/pt\/sites\/3\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47266384_Subscription_Monthly_XXL-140x90.jpg","pa-block-preview":"https:\/\/files.adventistas.org\/institucional\/pt\/sites\/3\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47266384_Subscription_Monthly_XXL-140x90.jpg","pa-block-render":"https:\/\/files.adventistas.org\/institucional\/pt\/sites\/3\/2013\/04\/Fotolia_47266384_Subscription_Monthly_XXL-290x220.jpg"}}