{"id":57,"date":"2020-02-14T08:42:13","date_gmt":"2020-02-14T11:42:13","modified":"2020-02-14T09:56:14","modified_gmt":"2020-02-14T12:56:14","slug":"melhore-a-vida-a-dois","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.adventistas.org\/pt\/familia\/melhore-a-vida-a-dois\/","title":{"rendered":"Melhore a vida a dois"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"Casa

O tolo construiu sua casa na areia<\/p><\/div>\n

No fa\u00admo\u00adso ser\u00adm\u00e3o do Mon\u00adte, jun\u00adto \u00e0 praia da Ga\u00adli\u00adl\u00e9ia, Je\u00adsus con\u00adtou a pa\u00adr\u00e1\u00adbo\u00adla dos Dois Fun\u00adda\u00admen\u00adtos, ci\u00adta\u00adda em Ma\u00adteus 7:24-27. So\u00adbre o ce\u00adn\u00e1\u00adrio da\u00adque\u00adle dia, pre\u00adfi\u00adro pen\u00adsar que Je\u00adsus fa\u00adlou da ba\u00adse da en\u00adcos\u00adta e fa\u00adzen\u00addo do re\u00adcin\u00adto um an\u00adfi\u00adtea\u00adtro. As\u00adsim fa\u00adci\u00adli\u00adta\u00adria a ac\u00fas\u00adti\u00adca e a mul\u00adti\u00add\u00e3o as\u00adsen\u00adta\u00adda mais aci\u00adma po\u00addia enten\u00add\u00ea-Lo me\u00adlhor.<\/p>\n

O Mes\u00adtre abor\u00addou so\u00adbre dois ti\u00adpos de pes\u00adsoas, os s\u00e1\u00adbios e os im\u00adpru\u00adden\u00adtes. O que di\u00adfe\u00adren\u00adcia um ti\u00adpo do ou\u00adtro \u2013 na pa\u00adr\u00e1\u00adbo\u00adla \u2013 \u00e9 a ati\u00adtu\u00adde de\u00adles pa\u00adra com a cons\u00adtru\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o de uma ca\u00adsa. Um op\u00adta pe\u00adlo ali\u00adcer\u00adce na ro\u00adcha; o ou\u00adtro pre\u00adfe\u00adre cons\u00adtruir na areia. O s\u00e1\u00adbio tem em vis\u00adta a es\u00adta\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adda\u00adde; o im\u00adpru\u00adden\u00adte, a co\u00admo\u00addi\u00adda\u00adde.<\/p>\n

O que is\u00adso tem a ver com ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto?<\/h3>\n

Vo\u00adc\u00ea per\u00adce\u00adbeu que, quan\u00addo duas pes\u00adsoas ami\u00adgas se en\u00adcon\u00adtram, em ge\u00adral co\u00admen\u00adtam a res\u00adpei\u00adto do progres\u00adso dos fi\u00adlhos, e qua\u00adse na\u00adda tra\u00adtam so\u00adbre o ma\u00adri\u00addo ou a mu\u00adlher? Pa\u00adre\u00adce que al\u00adgu\u00admas pes\u00adsoas guardam den\u00adtro de\u00adlas de\u00adsi\u00adlu\u00ads\u00f5es so\u00adbre a vi\u00adda ma\u00adri\u00adtal e su\u00adbli\u00admam suas es\u00adpe\u00adran\u00ad\u00e7as nos fi\u00adlhos.
\nA pa\u00adr\u00e1\u00adbo\u00adla de Je\u00adsus tem mui\u00adto a ver com ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto, por\u00adque a fe\u00adli\u00adci\u00adda\u00adde de ca\u00adda uma das pes\u00adsoas casa\u00addas de\u00adpen\u00adde em gran\u00adde me\u00addi\u00adda do mo\u00addo co\u00admo es\u00adt\u00e3o atuan\u00addo co\u00admo cons\u00adtru\u00adto\u00adres de sua \u201cca\u00adsa\u201d ou casa\u00admen\u00adto. Es\u00adt\u00e3o sen\u00addo s\u00e1\u00adbias ou im\u00adpru\u00adden\u00adtes? Qual tem si\u00addo o seu pa\u00adpel co\u00admo ope\u00adr\u00e1\u00adrio na cons\u00adtru\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o do ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto? Nes\u00adse ca\u00adso, a pa\u00adla\u00advra ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto \u00e9 mais apro\u00adpria\u00adda do que fa\u00adm\u00ed\u00adlia, por\u00adque os fi\u00adlhos cres\u00adcem e v\u00e3o em\u00adbo\u00adra, e so\u00admen\u00adte o ma\u00adri\u00addo e a mu\u00adlher per\u00adma\u00adne\u00adcem (ou as\u00adsim de\u00adve\u00adriam) at\u00e9 que a mor\u00adte os se\u00adpa\u00adre.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00eas di\u00admen\u00ads\u00f5es da cons\u00adtru\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h3>\n

O que vai de\u00adter\u00admi\u00adnar o su\u00adces\u00adso de um ca\u00adsal na cons\u00adtru\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o de sua ca\u00adsa \u00e9 a pos\u00adtu\u00adra par\u00adti\u00adcu\u00adlar de ca\u00adda um de\u00adles em re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ao que es\u00adt\u00e1 no fu\u00adtu\u00adro, no pre\u00adsen\u00adte, ou que fi\u00adcou no pas\u00adsa\u00addo.\u00a0Ve\u00adja\u00admos pri\u00admei\u00adra\u00admen\u00adte o fu\u00adtu\u00adro. Po\u00adde-se ter tr\u00eas ati\u00adtu\u00addes:<\/p>\n

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  1. A ex\u00adpec\u00adta\u00adti\u00adva de que vai sair ga\u00adnhan\u00addo com o ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto. Es\u00adsa po\u00adsi\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o po\u00adde ge\u00adrar frus\u00adtra\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es ou re\u00advol\u00adta con\u00adtra o par\u00adcei\u00adro.<\/li>\n
  2. A sen\u00adsa\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o de que vai sair per\u00adden\u00addo. Quem tem es\u00adsa ex\u00adpec\u00adta\u00adti\u00adva em re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ao par\u00adcei\u00adro es\u00adt\u00e1 mal, por\u00adque qual\u00adquer es\u00adfor\u00ad\u00e7o ou em\u00adpreen\u00addi\u00admen\u00adto que rea\u00adli\u00adzar es\u00adta\u00adr\u00e1 sem\u00adpre acom\u00adpa\u00adnha\u00addo do sen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adto de in\u00adse\u00adgu\u00adran\u00ad\u00e7a e fra\u00adcas\u00adso.<\/li>\n
  3. A dis\u00adpo\u00adsi\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o pa\u00adra doar. Quan\u00addo en\u00adtre\u00adga\u00admos al\u00adgu\u00adma coi\u00adsa de li\u00advre e es\u00adpon\u00adt\u00e2\u00adnea von\u00adta\u00adde, sen\u00adti\u00admos a sen\u00adsa\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o de rea\u00adli\u00adza\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o e fe\u00adli\u00adci\u00adda\u00adde. Es\u00adse \u00e9 o mo\u00adde\u00adlo que o ap\u00f3s\u00adto\u00adlo Pau\u00adlo en\u00adcon\u00adtrou em Cris\u00adto: \u201cMaridos, amai vos\u00adsa mu\u00adlher, co\u00admo tam\u00adb\u00e9m Cris\u00adto amou a Igre\u00adja e a Si mes\u00admo Se en\u00adtre\u00adgou por ela\u201d (Ef\u00e9sios 5:25).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Ve\u00adja\u00admos ago\u00adra as po\u00adsi\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es que se po\u00adde to\u00admar com as coi\u00adsas do pre\u00adsen\u00adte ou com aqui\u00adlo que es\u00adt\u00e1 aconte\u00adcen\u00addo no dia-a-dia. Po\u00adde-se agir de duas ma\u00adnei\u00adras, en\u00adquan\u00adto se cons\u00adtr\u00f3i: rea\u00adli\u00adzar uma obra de compe\u00adti\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ou de coo\u00adpe\u00adra\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

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    1. A com\u00adpe\u00adti\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o exis\u00adte quan\u00addo ca\u00adda um dos dois quer de\u00admons\u00adtrar que sa\u00adbe fa\u00adzer me\u00adlhor do que o outro; que er\u00adra me\u00adnos ou que n\u00e3o er\u00adra. A com\u00adpe\u00adti\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ge\u00adra ri\u00adva\u00adli\u00adda\u00adde e que\u00adbra a har\u00admo\u00adnia da\u00adqui\u00adlo que es\u00adt\u00e1 sen\u00addo fei\u00adto em con\u00adjun\u00adto. Ima\u00adgi\u00adne um ca\u00adsal pin\u00adtan\u00addo uma ca\u00adsa: en\u00adquan\u00adto um re\u00adsol\u00adve pas\u00adsar na pa\u00adre\u00adde tin\u00adta azul, o ou\u00adtro sa\u00adpe\u00adca o ama\u00adre\u00adlo; um op\u00adta por co\u00adlo\u00adcar ja\u00adne\u00adlas de me\u00adtal, e o ou\u00adtro com\u00adpra as de ma\u00addei\u00adra. A ca\u00adsa po\u00adde fi\u00adcar com\u00adpos\u00adta de ma\u00adte\u00adriais de qua\u00adli\u00adda\u00adde, mas cor\u00adre o ris\u00adco de per\u00adder em es\u00adt\u00e9\u00adti\u00adca e be\u00adle\u00adza.<\/li>\n
    2. Quan\u00addo \u2013 em vez de com\u00adpe\u00adti\u00adrem \u2013 exis\u00adte coo\u00adpe\u00adra\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o, am\u00adbos pas\u00adsam a cons\u00adtruir den\u00adtro dos mesmos pa\u00adr\u00e2\u00adme\u00adtros. A ca\u00adsa po\u00adde\u00adr\u00e1 at\u00e9 fi\u00adcar sim\u00adples, mas ha\u00adve\u00adr\u00e1 dois fa\u00adto\u00adres fa\u00advo\u00adr\u00e1\u00adveis: a har\u00admo\u00adnia e o sen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adto de par\u00adti\u00adci\u00adpa\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      O ter\u00adcei\u00adro t\u00f3\u00adpi\u00adco diz res\u00adpei\u00adto \u00e0 ati\u00adtu\u00adde que o ca\u00adsal tem pa\u00adra com as coi\u00adsas que es\u00adt\u00e3o com\u00adpro\u00adme\u00adti\u00addas com o pas\u00adsa\u00addo. Um dia des\u00adses vi\u00adsi\u00adtei a cons\u00adtru\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o de um ami\u00adgo e pas\u00adsa\u00admos pri\u00admei\u00adro pe\u00adlas de\u00adpen\u00add\u00ean\u00adcias in\u00adter\u00adnas; ele n\u00e3o dis\u00adse na\u00adda. Mas do la\u00addo de fo\u00adra, apon\u00adtou pa\u00adra uma das pa\u00adre\u00addes do ex\u00adte\u00adrior e dis\u00adse: \u201cVou man\u00addar der\u00adru\u00adbar o re\u00adbo\u00adco e fa\u00adz\u00ea-lo de no\u00advo.\u201d Aque\u00adle pro\u00adprie\u00adt\u00e1\u00adrio ti\u00adnha duas po\u00adsi\u00ad\u00e7\u00f5es em re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ao trabalho mal fei\u00adto: es\u00adque\u00adc\u00ea-lo ou se dis\u00adpor a re\u00adcons\u00adtruir o re\u00adbo\u00adco. As mes\u00admas al\u00adter\u00adna\u00adti\u00advas qual\u00adquer um de n\u00f3s po\u00adde ter em re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s coi\u00adsas do pas\u00adsa\u00addo que n\u00e3o fi\u00adca\u00adram den\u00adtro dos pa\u00addr\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

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      1. Es\u00adque\u00adcer. Por mais que al\u00adgu\u00e9m se es\u00adfor\u00adce, \u00e9 qua\u00adse im\u00adpos\u00ads\u00ed\u00advel. Co\u00admo no ca\u00adso da cons\u00adtru\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o que cita\u00admos, to\u00addas as ve\u00adzes que um dos dois ba\u00adter os olhos no \u201cre\u00adbo\u00adco\u201d mal fei\u00adto, vai lem\u00adbrar da bo\u00adba\u00adgem feita no pas\u00adsa\u00addo.<\/li>\n
      2. Re\u00adcons\u00adtruir. Es\u00adsa ati\u00adtu\u00adde po\u00adde ser ca\u00adrac\u00adte\u00adri\u00adza\u00adda pe\u00adlo ver\u00adda\u00addei\u00adro sen\u00adti\u00admen\u00adto do per\u00add\u00e3o. Assemelhase \u00e0 dis\u00adpo\u00adsi\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ho\u00adnes\u00adta de der\u00adru\u00adbar o \u201cre\u00adbo\u00adco\u201d mal fei\u00adto e co\u00adlo\u00adcar um ma\u00adte\u00adrial no\u00advo no lu\u00adgar do an\u00adte\u00adrior. Is\u00adso sem\u00adpre d\u00e1 mui\u00adto tra\u00adba\u00adlho, mas exis\u00adte fe\u00adli\u00adci\u00adda\u00adde no ato de re\u00adcons\u00adtruir la\u00addo a la\u00addo com a pes\u00adsoa que se ama o que n\u00e3o deu cer\u00adto no pas\u00adsa\u00addo.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Duas mo\u00adda\u00adli\u00adda\u00addes de so\u00adlo<\/h3>\n
        \"Casa<\/a>

        O s\u00e1bio construiu sua casa sobre a rocha<\/p><\/div>\n

        Quan\u00addo vol\u00adta\u00admos nos\u00adsa vi\u00ads\u00e3o pa\u00adra a pa\u00adr\u00e1\u00adbo\u00adla, ob\u00adser\u00adva\u00admos que Je\u00adsus tam\u00adb\u00e9m cha\u00adma a aten\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o dos ouvin\u00adtes pa\u00adra os fun\u00adda\u00admen\u00adtos da ca\u00adsa. O im\u00adpru\u00adden\u00adte cons\u00adtr\u00f3i so\u00adbre a areia e o s\u00e1\u00adbio so\u00adbre a ro\u00adcha. E quan\u00addo a tem\u00adpes\u00adta\u00adde so\u00adpra, a ca\u00adsa da areia de\u00adsa\u00adba e a da ro\u00adcha per\u00adma\u00adne\u00adce.\u00a0O Mes\u00adtre en\u00adsi\u00adnou que n\u00e3o de\u00adve\u00admos con\u00adfun\u00addir feli\u00adci\u00adda\u00adde com a fal\u00adsa sen\u00adsa\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o de bem-es\u00adtar.<\/p>\n

        Cons\u00adtruir na areia \u00e9 prio\u00adri\u00adzar a co\u00admo\u00addi\u00adda\u00adde ou to\u00addos os ti\u00adpos de con\u00adfor\u00adto que uma so\u00adcie\u00adda\u00adde consumis\u00adta ten\u00adta fa\u00adzer as pes\u00adsoas acre\u00addi\u00adtar se\u00adrem in\u00addis\u00adpen\u00ads\u00e1\u00adveis pa\u00adra a fe\u00adli\u00adci\u00adda\u00adde. A pa\u00adr\u00e1\u00adbo\u00adla ad\u00adver\u00adte os ca\u00adsais so\u00adbre es\u00adsa ques\u00adt\u00e3o, mos\u00adtran\u00addo que as coi\u00adsas su\u00adper\u00adfi\u00adciais n\u00e3o re\u00adsis\u00adtem ao agua\u00adcei\u00adro.<\/p>\n

        Cons\u00adtruir na ro\u00adcha \u00e9 prio\u00adri\u00adzar a es\u00adta\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adda\u00adde. O ver\u00adda\u00addei\u00adro bem-es\u00adtar es\u00adt\u00e1 ali\u00adcer\u00ad\u00e7a\u00addo no bom sen\u00adso dos ca\u00adsais em re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o ao fu\u00adtu\u00adro, ao pre\u00adsen\u00adte e ao pas\u00adsa\u00addo.<\/p>\n

        Olhar pa\u00adra o fu\u00adtu\u00adro com res\u00adpon\u00adsa\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adda\u00adde e ten\u00addo dis\u00adpo\u00adsi\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o de en\u00adtre\u00adgar-se um ao ou\u00adtro \u00e9 o pri\u00admei\u00adro pas\u00adso de uma re\u00adla\u00ad\u00e7\u00e3o que tem tu\u00addo pa\u00adra du\u00adrar. E, se por aca\u00adso al\u00adgu\u00adma coi\u00adsa n\u00e3o der cer\u00adto, o se\u00adgre\u00addo \u00e9 perdoar e re\u00adcons\u00adtruir com amor aque\u00adle pe\u00adda\u00ad\u00e7o \u201cmal fei\u00adto\u201d. Va\u00adle a pe\u00adna pre\u00adser\u00advar a har\u00admo\u00adnia e a be\u00adle\u00adza do ca\u00adsa\u00admen\u00adto.<\/p>\n

        Paulo Pinheiro, Revista Sinais dos Tempos, 1999, Casa Publicadora Brasileira<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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